Scott Tolchin – Life Coach, Relationship Coach, and Healing Arts Practitioner.

Hi! Thanks for stopping by! If you have found this page then either you are facing some really strong challenges in your life or you are looking to take your life from ordinary to extraordinary. Either way, I am here to help

My mission is to radically transform people’s lives in a way that frees them from the pain of their past and empowers them to create new visions for their future and provides them with effective strategies for making that future become a reality while living life fully and vibrantly in the present.

By utilizing the most effective neuroscience-based modalities like Havening Techniques® to rapidly and permanently erase the pain of your past experience, Strategic Intervention Coaching to solve current problems and create new beliefs and behaviors, and hypnosis and NLP to program in your new way of being in the world, you will find that profound change can happen more easily and rapidly than you ever thought possible.


Coaching Certifications:

Healing Arts Certifications:

Please see the individual pages on this website and the links above for more information about each one of these modalities.  And definitely check out the page on Havening Techniques!  This is perhaps one of the most amazing healing techniques available today for dealing with things like:

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Depression
  • Excessive feelings of fear, worry, sadness, loneliness, anger, guilt, shame, and grief
  • PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder) symptoms like night-terrors, flashbacks, hypervigilance, bouts of fear and rage, and even phantom limb pain
  • Panic Attacks
  • Phobias
  • Stage Fright and Performance Anxiety
  • Retreating social behaviors
  • Feeling lost, alone, and without purpose
  • Relief from symptoms of chronic pain, inflammation, immobility, and lethargy that are often associated with various syndromes, silent illnesses, and autoimmune disorders like fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, allergies, nerve pain, and other psychogenic symptoms that limit your life. When Western Medicine cannot help, quite often Havening Techniques can.

Scott Tolchin is not a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, social worker, or medical professional.

“Scott Tolchin is an incredible coach. I contacted him because I wanted to overcome 2 long-term phobias I had of driving on highways and walking across large intersections following a traumatic knee injury 6 years prior. Not only did he help to cure me of both these phobias in a relatively short amount of time, but he did so much more than that. We decided to go back to the root cause of my phobias (the original childhood wounds), and we worked from the ground floor up. Because we were Skyping between 2 different states, he taught me how to self-haven, a technique that was hugely impactful and healing! Scott masterfully assisted me in facing my pain and conquering my fears, until all that was left was love. I grew to love and understand myself much more deeply, and this love extended to my husband, my son and my life as a whole. By releasing the energy that was stuck inside me from these phobias and childhood wounds, I gained access to wonderful parts of myself that had previously been repressed. Now I feel so much more whole, vibrant and alive like I’m living at full capacity rather than some percentage of myself. I also have a powerful tool that I can use (havening) whenever I need it. I have Scott to thank for this.  Scott created a safe and sacred space for me to do my inner work. He’s easy to talk to, patient, nonjudgmental, a skilled and compassionate listener, and a highly effective guide. Scott is flexible and responsive to the needs of his clients, able to switch gears when necessary. He was gentle when needed, pushed me when needed, and always saw the best in me. He is genuinely dedicated to the well-being of his clients, willing to go the extra mile to give good solid support and encouragement. He often went way beyond the call of duty, generously giving of his time and energy in between sessions when needed. I feel truly blessed by our work together.” – Michele R., Miami, FL


“Scott Tolchin is a wonderful coach. He seems to always have a brilliant technique or the perfect words to help rid the body of all its negativity. No matter what you may be going through, it is never too big for him to handle. His completely unique scientific approach is extremely effective, but what really makes his sessions special and unique is Scott himself. The energy, compassion, and love he gives to you in a session are enough for a lifetime. You feel safe, secure, and above all else, loved. The fire inside him is what opens up your mind to allowing his methods to work. For me personally, trust does not come easy. In my life, I always found it difficult to trust, but from the first time I met Scott, something about him made me feel secure and I knew he was someone I could trust whole-heartedly. My life has changed for the better, and I am a better person for having known Scott, as well as having him as a coach. Scott has the ability to not just hear your problems, but he chooses to take them on as his own, and share in whatever feelings you may feel so that he can fully work with us, not on us. I could not more highly recommend Scott, but not just for what he does, but more importantly for the person, he is. He changed my life, and I am a much better person for it.” – Chris P., Mineola, NY


“I would like to thank Scott Tolchin for using and teaching me the Havening Technique. Meeting with him a few times has helped transform my life. Before I met with Scott I was experiencing difficulty sleeping. However, he taught me that by a simple touch of the hands, upper arms, and face, it helped to alter my thoughts and mood. I learned that I could apply havening to myself and be pro-active with my health. Thanks to Scott I have found Havening to be an extremely powerful new tool, which I believe everyone should have access too.” – Robin B., New Jersey


“Scott Tolchin helped me overcome my fear of driving on the highway with his Havening Techniques. Out of the blue I developed a severe case of anxiety whenever I thought about driving on the highway. This went on for about a year. I hid it from most people and found every excuse to not drive or take the side roads if I needed to drive somewhere that I normally would have taken the highway to get to. When I realized that this had become a severe problem that I needed to overcome, Scott helped me do it! I live in Florida and we skyped several Havening sessions. In between the sessions I practiced driving a bit more on the highway each week. I now am able to drive wherever I need to go without worrying about finding side roads to get me there! I have my life back!
Thank you Scott!” – Ilene Rand, Florida